How to Stay the Course in a World Adrift in a Cesspool of Self-Love
and a Church Apart in Cultural Chaos
(2 Timothy 3:14-17)
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Hollyrood’s Gomer called it a “a real head-scratching pickle.” He could not recommend which direction I should choose as I waited at the Y-junction.
Oh, the choices! Travel into the Twilight Zone with no return guarantees or go full Star Trek into where no one has ever gone before.
Someday in the future, people will travel by instantaneous transportation as shown on the TV show, Star Trek. That process used matter-energy conversion which disassembled an individual into subatomic particles which were transmitted by high-energy beams to a desired location, to be reassembled by converting the energy back into matter (hopefully, a physical body).
This futuristic scientific theory was like assembling a complex jigsaw puzzle. Someone breaks up the puzzle into tiny pieces, places them into a box, seals and shakes the box, transports the box to a store where someone picks up the box and takes it home to put it back together. “Hey, Mom! Look, Dad’s home!”
I can foresee the time when my wife and I will use the transfer portal to go somewhere. Most assuredly, my wife will say, “Wait, I need to make sure I have my sunglasses. Good…”
While she searches in her purse, I remark, “Babe, I have already hit the……” (WHOOSH!)
I will disappear with her last word “Good” ringing in various places of my disassembled ear. I will always wonder if she intended to say, “Good…I found my sunglasses.” Or “Good…I’m glad you hit the button.” Or “Good grief, you are so impatient.” Or “Good riddance, you idiot.”
How will you get to where you can use your platform of influence for the greatest good?
Are you convinced of the things you learned in God’s Word? Are you prepared to continue in them for the rest of your life?
The journey of Christian pilgrimage is not a walk across the street. It is not a few momentary hundred-yard sprints. It is a cross-country run that lasts for the rest of your life, sustained by steps of faith in one direction.
- We are living in the last days (v. 1).
But understand this, that in the last days (v 1).
- These are terrible times.
times of difficulty, literally, terrible times (v. 1).
- Things will get worse.
evil people and impostors will go on from bad to worse, (v. 13).
Why is life so difficult at times? We live in ‘terrible times.’ The original word is the same word used in Matthew 8:28 to describe the two demoniacs, extremely dangerous, violent rioters. People were afraid to walk past them on the street. In classical Greek, the word describes the raging of the sea or the untamable actions of wild animals.
Do we live in the last days? Biblically, the first coming of Christ ushered in the last days which will be consummated by the return of Christ. We are living in the present tense last days, not some future time.
- Avoid these spiritual imposters. This is present tense (v. 5).
- You, however, … calls attention to a present tense contrast (v. 10).
This world’s terrible times are extremely difficult and terrifyingly dangerous, going from bad to worse.
We are to be aware, not afraid.
- This world is a cesspool of self-love (vs 2-4).
The biggest problem in this world is a love problem. The road of self-love leads to self-destruction.
The moral decadence and cultural decay are evident in each of the nineteen descriptive words (vs. 2-5).
For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power.
The first phrase provides the key to understanding the entire paragraph. LOVE OF SELF IS EPITOMIZED BY NO LOVE FOR GOD.
All sorrow and sin entered the world through that moment when Adam and Eve decided to love themselves more than God. They had everything but wanted more. They did not want God to tell them what they should or should not do.
Self-centeredness loves self-exaltation (everything is about ME first and foremost) and self-rule (no one tells ME what to do).
That continues to be the motivating factor of all evil and wrong relationships in our present time. Self-centeredness makes everything difficult in life until it unravels into terrible times, causing things to go from bad to worse.
Love of self is displayed in the belief and desire to control everyone and everything in your world to please yourself. You want everyone else to do what you want, when you want, and the way you want to control all circumstances for your ease, benefit, and pleasure.
LOVE OF SELF RATHER THAN LOVE FOR GOD IS AT THE HEART OF ALL EVIL. THAT IS THE SOURCE AND EXPRESSION OF ALL EVIL
And what is the root of that evil self-love? The love of money! (1 Timothy 6:10).
MONEY buys the power to do what ME wants to have (freedom and things) and what ME wants to do (love of pleasure) independently of God and his Life Directions.
ME-centeredness is the opposite life direction to God-centered living. That is the forbidden tree from which all mankind eats.
Eve became the Mother of all Self-Lovers. She chose to love self over loving God and loving others. She did not choose to do what was best for Adam who followed right along that same path of self-love, doing what he wanted rather than what his wife needed. His self-love overshadowed love for God and discounted love for his wife.
The rich young ruler sadly chose the road of self-love when standing at the Y-junction of life where Jesus shared Life Directions to everlasting treasure: Give away all your self-love and follow Me (Matthew 19:21). The lover of money and pleasure had the form of godliness (I have kept all the commandments), but not the heart and power to live and love like Jesus.
Jesus summed up the Life Directions from God’s Word: The most important thing is to love God and love others (Matthew 22: 36-38).
At the heart of all evil is love of self rather than love for God and others.
We all live in the “I, ME, My” imaginary world of our self-love creation. As we move along on the road of life, we become more self-centered and more selfish, wanting to possess enough wealth (love of money) so we can do whatever we want to do (love of pleasure). Despite its attractive alure, that life stinks. Why?
Love of self and not lovers of God form two sides of a spiritual sandwich filled with distasteful ingredients.
Each of the other self-centered characteristics flow from and for selfish promotion, power, protection, and pleasure.
Lovers of self consider themselves:
- better than others (proud, arrogant, slanderers)
- not needing anyone else (disobedient, ungrateful)
- not caring about God or anyone else (unholy, heartless, unyielding, and never wrong, always putting others down).
- in control of this world and unanswerable to anyone else including God regarding moral guidelines (without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, and disloyal, reckless regarding any moral rules or standards, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God).
Lovers of Self–They lift themselves up on a pedestal, belittle others while saying and doing things to make others look worse. Why? They are the center of their universe, not God.
That road leads to the gates of Hell. There are no transportation portals out of that destination. It is an eternal cesspool of misery.
- The church apart from God is in cultural chaos (v. 5).
Love of self manifests itself in the love of money and love of pleasure, NOT LOVE OF GOD.
We live in a time where many churches have embraced the culturally trendy style which feeds lovers of self with a sense of spirituality. This self-centeredness disguises itself in a form of godliness but has no power to live a God-centered life.
Where does the power of genuine godliness come from? God’s Word is the power-source (dunamis, dynamite) to highlight the life and love of God in one’s life.
So why is there no power in man-centered religion? The church-leaders and churchgoers have great expressions of godliness, but there is no emphasis on God’s Word. There is pretense but not power.
In a culture adrift, the lovers of self and lovers of money form the diving board forthe downward spiral into the depths of darkness epitomized by lovers of pleasure, not lovers of God.
That leads to a Church apart from its power-source, leaving a spiritualpretense, a form of godliness, but no reality of genuine devotion or trust. These imposters deteriorate from bad to worse (v. 13).
Too often, the desire to be relevant and popular drives religious leaders to emphasize things that feed people’s love for self, money, and pleasure, all disguised in religious pretense.
Avoid self-centered people, man-centered churches, and all manner of religious pretense (v. 5). They are going the wrong direction away from God’s power and purpose, away from God’s Life Directions.
One thing becomes crystal clear.
THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE IS NOT HATE, BUT SELFISHNESS.
THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE FOR GOD IS LOVE OF SELF.
But what about you? You, however, continue … to follow, learn, and believe in the Lord Jesus Christ (v. 10). This emphatic contrast calls Timothy and us to persevere on the right path of God-centeredness.

- GOD’S WORD IS THE ONLY TRUSTWORTHY SOURCE TO NAVIGATE THESE WATERS DURING TERRIBLE TIMES …STAY THE COURSE (vs. 15-17).
This culture is adrift and the church is apart, both going the WRONG DIRECTION. You, however, follow Jesus and continue learning God’s Word.
STAY THE COURSE! Continue pursuit of the goal despite obstacles, opposition, cost, or criticism.
That will be our focus in Part 3.
ALL SCRIPTURE IS GOD-BREATHED (profitable, powerful, purposeful).
That is foundational, fundamental, and vital for God-centered living. The #1 Textbook is the only source of wisdom and power and purpose for living a God-honoring life.
Part 2 Summary
JESUS IS THE ONLY SUFFICIENT TREASURE
AND SATISFYING PLEASURE IN LIFE.
God-centeredness is trusting God is enough. God is enough riches and enough joy for this life no matter what the circumstances.
Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37:4).
God, you make known to me the path to life; in your presence there is fullness of joy (Psalm 16:11).
Is God enough for you? Trust God. That leads to a God-centered life fully equipped and powered by God’s Word to live for God’s purpose (v. 17).
People make mistakes because they do not know and trust God’s Word, which is the only trustworthy guide to truth for life’s directions. Jesus criminally indicted religious pretenders following their man-centered maps. Is this not the reason you are wrong, because you do not know God’s Word or God’s power? (Mark 12:24).
Learn how to live a God-centered life by trusting the authority and sufficiency of God’s Word to provide profit, power, and purpose (vs. 16-17).
Follow Jesus. Find your Paul who learned how to follow Jesus. Learn from his teaching, conduct, goal in life, faith, patience, love, and steadfastness (v. 10).
Trust God in your present troubles. However difficult your life gets this week, it is not as terrible as Paul’s life when he wrote these words to Timothy and us. Through it all, the Lord stood by me and He will take care of you as well (vs. 11-12).
Following Jesus is directly linked to your love for God’s Word. Continue and be convinced. God’s Word provides non-negotiable convictions to stand on. Learn them. Live them by loving God and loving others.
BE A LOVER OF GOD NOT A LOVER OF SELF!
TRUST GOD’S WORD TO GOVERN, GUIDE, AND GUARD YOUR LIFE!



















