The Road of Life is not a straight highway. There are curves and hills and turns and detours. The unsuspected changes to our planned route do not show up on our current road map. Google redirections are not available.
A recent reminder of that feeling of helplessness came on my long six-hour trip home along a familiar route.
It was a dark and stormy night. Actually, it was not stormy, but it was definitely dark, and that pretty much sums up all you need to describe this solo adventure in the middle of nowhere.
It was late with no moon. I had been talking on the phone with my wife.
I came to a stop sign. Stop! There had never been a stop sign in this area on my previous trips. The area looked unfamiliar. I became disoriented. Somewhere, I made a wrong turn.
This looked like farm country in the middle of nowhere. There were no signs. No highway numbers. No city destinations. No mile-markers. No lights. No traffic. No cell service. No GPS, not that I would have heeded Siri’s instructions. Usually, Siri’s voice borders on judgmental; tonight, she was giving me the silent treatment.
Siri has never forgiven me for that time I absentmindedly called her Alexa by mistake. It just happened in the heat of the moment.
The time was post-midnight. My fuel gauge was nearing the redlight danger zone. I tried to gain my bearings. I prayed as I turned right down the better looking road. This was no time to take the road less traveled.
The country road was so empty that even the tumbleweeds had moved on, rolling off in search of greener pastures.
I pressed on, trusting my instincts—which, it turns out, are excellent for choosing snacks and mood music but terrible for navigation. I took a left, then a right, then another left, and before long, I was somewhere between “Nowhere” and “Where-the-Heck-Am-I?” Both places are famous for non-existence.
The dark winding road narrowed. The shadows seemed to lean in. They felt like foreshadows of danger. Some were just reminders of stupidity.
My headlights flickered—just enough to make me question my life choices. I taught my kids and grandkids how to manage these moments that define something lost or misplaced.
Stop and think! Retrace your steps, at least in your mind. I tried to remember the last familiar landmark. I think it was the lights of my departing city.
My mind raced back to that stop sign because my car was miles from there. I remembered a crooked mailbox or maybe it was a haunted-looking scarecrow. Either way, they were in my rear-view mirror. There was only one way to go in this present crisis: crazy…I mean…forward.
It started to mist, then rain. I thought I could see a distant light between the swipes of the windshield wipers. Aha! Salvation or, at least, civilization was on the horizon.
I rolled into a small town with only one streetlight. A neon beer sign hung in the window of the only business establishment. All the cars were parked. Every house was dark. The only sound were two dogs howling at one another. They were this community’s replacement for the resounding chimes of London’s Big Ben.

I remember in the old classic screwball comedy movie, It Happened One Night, that Clark Gable knocked on a stranger’s door asking for help. The newspaper headlines reported, “Search for missing heiress.” Those were different times.
Tomorrow’s News flash: Former pastor shot breaking into small town home in the early morning hours. His last words were, “Where am I?”
Sometimes that is the way life feels. The day finds us going down some road we never intended to travel. This was not on our calendar and not in our plan. We were anticipating another day on cruise control when this massive detour permanently changed life.
Where am I? Where am I going? What happened? What am I going to do now? When will this change? What if this never changes?
Stop and Think! Take your mind back to something spiritually familiar.
We know God is sovereign (in complete control) over all things all the time. We know God’s wisdom is infinite (unlimited and unhindered). We know God is fully aware of every seen and unseen detail of our lives. We know everything God does is wise, right, and good. Always, even this.
God is not surprised by where you are in life; it is part of His plan. Whether this present circumstance is due to unplanned events or bad decisions by you or others, this is all part of your journey.
GOD ALWAYS KNOWS WHERE YOU ARE, WHERE YOU NEED TO BE, HOW AND WHEN TO GET YOU THERE.

Talk to God about where you are. Prayer is not telling God something he does not already know. Prayer is placing yourself in the hands of the one who knows and cares and has promised to supply all you need for this life journey to count for good now and forever.
Life changes. Geography. Time. Companionship. Physical abilities. Circumstances. They all change.
Your life is not about time, things, and chance. It will look directionless without help from the #1 Textbook. God does not take life directions from Siri or Alexa or you. “God is beyond the intuitive level of our radar” (David Wells).
All the days of your life were planned for you and written in God’s #1 Textbook before Day One began (Psalm 139:16).
God has a plan for when you do not where you are or why.
God’s Word is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105).When you do not know what to do, fix your eyes on God (2 Chronicles 20:12; Psalm 121:1; Psalm 141:8).
Eyes up!
Journey reminder: God’s timing is not the same as your timing. Waiting, changing, resting, and trusting are all parts of this earthly trip. In all things of life, God works for your good (Romans 8:28).
Journey reading: Read and reflect on Joseph’s life journey (Genesis 37-50).
In almost every paragraph, the life question is, “Where am I now?”
The story climaxes with that famous quote, “I am in the place God wants me. Others meant things for evil in my life, but God designed it all for good. Learn to live in faith and not fear” (Genesis 50:19-21).
Most of Joseph’s journey did not look like God was in control for good. It certainly did not always feel that way. Loneliness. Betrayal, Disappointment. Fear. Resentment. Bitterness. Pits. Prisons. Hatred. Trouble. Suffering. Emotional baggage. Crushed dreams. Tears. Valleys where people quit.
Have you visited some of those places in your life journey? You have the same guiding God.
God placed more spectacular technicolor in Joseph’s faith than in his beautiful coat. You are God’s handiwork, His beautiful masterpiece. With every wrong turn, God is adding beautiful color to the tapestry of your life.
The God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm, and steadfast (1 Peter 5:10).
Wherever you are now, place all your hope in God. Love fervently and fearlessly. Love God most wherever you are in this life’s journey and everyone with you on the trip will benefit.
Through many dangers, toils, and snares,
I have already come.
Tis grace hath brought me safe thus far,
And grace will lead me home
–Amazing Grace, John Newton


























