MY BIGGEST LETDOWN

(A FATHER’S DAY TRIBUTE) Dr. Seuss wrote, “When something bad happens, you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.” This week is a special time to honor my father whose memory brought a smile as I reminisced of how he handledContinue reading “MY BIGGEST LETDOWN”

Don’t Be Stupid

“Stupid is as stupid does.” Sorry. My brain is on vacation this week, Unfortunately, it could not afford to take my body with it; so, I am stuck here in Stupidville with Forest Gump. I have moments where I do not think about anything. That is a little frightening! There are times that the chainsContinue reading “Don’t Be Stupid”

Non-discrimination: A Lesson from Mice

Mice are non-discriminatory. What about you? Mice show no favoritism. They do not care if you are rich or poor, young or old, single or married, educated or dropout, farmer or metropolitan. Mice treat all nationalities and all ethnic groups the same. Almost everyone seems to have dealt with mice. Like the common cold, aContinue reading “Non-discrimination: A Lesson from Mice”

Down and Out

I was face-down flat on the floor crying my eyes out. I had not fallen or tripped. I collapsed from the weight of my tears. Life was over. Hope for happiness was gone. Faith was AWOL. Love was a missing link. This was not how I envisioned my life. This was not what I thoughtContinue reading “Down and Out”

Mistaken Identity

It was Mother’s Day, and the church was packed with smiling families, bouquets of flowers, and an air of anticipation. As per tradition, the church leaders not only honored all mothers but planned a special presentation to honor the newest mother, the past year’s first-time mothers, the mother with the most children, and the oneContinue reading “Mistaken Identity”

REVENGE

The unknown man walked into my pastoral office. He reached into his pocket and pulled out…a little black book. I was so thankful it was not a gun. He told me his wife attended this church and asked a rhetorical question as he sat down in the chair across from my desk. “Do you knowContinue reading “REVENGE”

Oh Say Can You See

DOUBLE VISION EYE EXAM These were not the words from someone singing The Star Bangled Banner. These were the words on a red, white, and blue neon sign adorning an optometrist’s office. Have you been to the optometrist lately? How was your Eye Exam? My visit began with eye drops and then the Eye ChartContinue reading “Oh Say Can You See”

The Last Thing 

Funeral. Memorial Service. Graveside. Last Rites. Celebration of Life. Committal Service. Farewell Tour. A Time of Remembrance.  Whatever you choose to call it, we will all experience that Last Thing.  Whatever you choose to call it, I do not like attending. I see the value of it for grieving loved ones. I understand the intentContinue reading “The Last Thing “

IT’S APRIL 15…TAX DAY

There should be a large tax deduction for getting old. I argued that point with the IRS agent who not only did not agree but seemingly did not care. That did not hinder my presentation of the facts. Armed with a pile of receipts and a bucket load of tax loopholes, I filled out myContinue reading “IT’S APRIL 15…TAX DAY”

BACK TO THE FUNNY: SIRI-OUSLY OVER

Life Directions Epilogue: My Break-Up Love Letter to Siri Siri…When I first met Siri several years ago, I found her interesting, friendly, captivating. For the few of you unfamiliar with Siri, she is Apple’s voice-activated digital assistant…a robot. She allows users to interact with other Apple devices using voice commands, enabling a range of tasksContinue reading “BACK TO THE FUNNY: SIRI-OUSLY OVER”